Abusive relationship- HELP?

how sad for you and your child. this guy is dangerous. maybe he is only verbally threatening you, maybe he means business. no one but he knows. you have to call the police (don't worry about them, they can handle your bf without any problem) and get an order against him. you may end up having to relocate for a while just to let things die down, but that also might not be necessary. only you can judge the level of danger you folks might be in. but please contact the cops as soon as you can. they can give you info on safe houses, they can protect you, and they will arrest him should anything go down. don't become another domestic abuse statistic. get some help now.