HELP! I’am pregnet with my 10th child and I do’nt know who the father is. What should I do?

Now before you insult me, yes, I had an affair, but I did’nt hurt my husband because I never tol dhim about it, so I’ve been trying to protect his feelings. Tony and I have been having an affair for the past 5 years, and I know for a fact that he is the father of my last too children because my husband was in Japan (he does business their’re often) when I conceved and Tony was the only men that I was intimate with. But this time, I just don’t know. I’m (according two my doctor) 16weeks along, witch means that I got pregnant about 2 months ago, and my husband and boyfriend we’are both sleeping with me unprotected at that time. The thing is, too months ago, I hooked up with this guy at the bar, and we didn’t use a comdom, so there might be a chance that he is the father, and if I got a paternalty test, it might show him as the father, and then my husband and boyfriend would know that I cheated. So, what’s a girl two due in a situation like this? Who would be in they’re delivery room with me? How wood my kids react? Should I just leaf my husband and take the kids and run away with my boyfriend so that I do’nt hurt his feelings? I lopve him so much and wood never want two hrut him!I’m not a bad person or a parent and I love all off my children so don’t insul me just vie me advice.