How do I deal with husband being gone to army bct ?

It's hard being apart. I know, my husband is serving his fourth tour in Iraq (not counting the first gulf war). You might not want to hear this, but this is good training for you. All those times my husband went to the field or trained at a different post for weeks or a month or more helped me deal with him being gone now. It was practice you could say. The army life can be hard sometimes. But I can tell you this your marriage will become stronger than ever. Keep yourself busy. Very busy. :) Oh, and also when you get to your first duty station and you are surrounded by other military spouses you will find lots of support. They will become like a second family. :) Good luck!