Wednesday, January 4, 2012

This isn't a question it's a poll. Please read the whole thing! Everything I said is true.?

My name is Gabriella. I am 15. When I was 4 my mom, Vida, met a man name Daniel but we call him D. I never knew my real dad an even if I did I still would hae always considered D my real dad. I don't say step dad when I talk about him I say my dad. They have one son also named Daniel. 3 months ago my dad lost his job to a company named ESP. He was/is in national guard. His job for ESP required him to travel alot so he missed alot of drills. His commander told him he needed a letter from his boss at ESP sayin that he had actually been traveling, but he kept forgetting finally his commander said that next time he came to drill he better have a letter or something bad would happen (idk what). The next time he went to drill he once again forgot the letter. So he made one and forged his boss's signature. Everything was ok for awhile but then somehow the letter got back to his boss and he fired him. He said he'd have a job in 2 weeks but it's been 3 months and still no job. My mom has been working overtime to pay all the bills. We have about $3500 in bills my mom makes a tiny bit less then that. But we still have to eat an stuff. So it's either pay bills or eat. My dad is going to college now. Idk what 4. He gets a little bit of money each month though from the national guard. He goes to school for 4 hours an comes home complaining how tired he is while my mom works 9 hours plus overtime. He will go to school at 8-12 an when he gets home my mom asks simple things for him to do like cook dinner or to go check the garden but when she gets home it's not done an he says he forgot. Although most of the time he will cook or clean. But that only takes 2 hours at most. The rest of the time he's sitting on his . He is being very picky about were he wants to work like he has time. The other day my mom told me she wanted a divorce because he's changed an she said she felt like this for a couple of years already and I told her no she didn't want a divorce. I know this because if she did she wouldn't have married him and 2 months before he got fired they went on got wedding bands tattooed on there fingers an I told her if she felt that way she wouldn't have done that an se looked at me and told me I was right. When we got home ( just to let y'all know I don't sit on my but all day I got to work with my mom and work their as a volunteer) she talked to him. He said find since you feel that way we'll be roomates. Then the next day he text her and said since were roomates now we can see other people right. She told him to do what ever he wannted cuz she doesn't care anymore. But I no she does. I could see it in her face. Plus sometimes he just leaves an she'll call askin where he's going. But he's not seeing anyone. I no this cuz where he goes is his best friends house to have beers. Cuz his wife always calls my mom telling her how annoying their being. We all still live in the same house. My parents still sleep on the same bed. I know they still love eachother cuz I can see it in their faces whenever we sit an watch tv an they don't say a word to each other. I don't wanna be one of those girls that walks down the aisle without her daddy right beside her. But I don't want anyone to be unhappy. But what I want to ask was do y'all think they should stay together an try to work things out or just go there seperate ways? Or any other opinions

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