Im having family problems. can someone help?

ill have to admit that im not the best kid in the world i have sneaked out in the past and drank some alcohol..and gotten caught for most of it. but to be honest me and my parents have never really had that good of a relationship. my mom thinks im a skank because of the way i dress and she always tries to dictate what im gonna wear and we usually get into a yelling match over it. now me and my dad just like try to stay out of eachothers way but when we do cross paths its like ww1 blows up. i have always wanted to be that daddys little girl type deal but ive come to the realization that it will never be like that. i really want a stronger bond with thm..what should i do?